How to Make New Friends & Build Your Social Support Network

Remember that trying to make new friends does not make you lame, desperate, or needy. Everyone can benefit from social connection, but making those connections can take work, and the process can be uncertain! So, if you want a social life, you must make it happen for yourself and accept that it will take time, effort, and patience.

Find some potential new friends! You can start with people you already know (acquaintances who have shown interest in being your friend but you’ve never had time to hang out with them), or you can go out and meet new people. To meet new people, you may need to force yourself out of your normal routine to make meeting new people a priority. A few good places to meet new people include your workplace, churches or other religious organizations, clubs, sporting events, art classes, volunteer work, karaoke, trivia night, music or art festivals, and even farmer’s markets.

Apart from making new friends, another way to expand your social support network is to attend networking events!

  • Networking events can be awkward, especially when you don’t know anyone there. However, if you embrace the awkwardness and diffuse the tension by acknowledging it, they can be a great way to meet new people and expand your personal and professional networks.

Another great way to increase your support system is by going to a professor’s office hours!

  • Most of the time, professors are excited to chat with you and help you navigate your time at school. So take advantage of their knowledge and wisdom in the professional areas that interest you.